What Made You Happy Today?


#2606
  • and obey the 10 Commandments, which, due to our sinful nature, is impossible, but is made possible by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

#2607

Fixed an issue on one of our sites, ftp delivery of transactions not working.

Feeling chuffed, needed the morale boost :slight_smile:


#2608

Isn’t that God’s plan for everyone?


#2609

Part of the problem with what you say is that what Folau actually said was that being gay is a sin in and of itself. It isn’t. It is something inherent. You cannot repent of being gay any more than you can repent of being an Anglo-Saxon male (though some people have tried).

Whether or not it’s against God’s will for people to act on their sexuality is a matter for debate.
I suspect that you and I are going to disagree on that one. In my view, if God is omniscient then He knew that some people would be gay. In fact He made people that way. He also made people so that most people have an inbuilt need for companionship.

As for what the bible says, context matters. There’s a passage in the bible where one of the apostles preaches in an area that is a matriarchal society. Because it’s a matriarchal society and the apostle comes from a patriarchal society, he makes the rule that women can’t preach in that society. For a long time though (and even now in some backwards places) people took that passage out of context and applied it everywhere so that it meant that no women can preach anywhere at any time.
You also need to take the times into account as well. In the context of the times, pork and shellfish were hugely risky foods, and they were therefore anathema. That’s not the case now so we eat both.
Also in the context of the times, adultery was hugely disruptive. Adulterers were therefore stoned to death. There are people in this forum who are technically adulterers - anyone who is divorced and remarried. We don’t stone them to death any more, it’s just not an issue.
Homosexuality is in the same boat. In the context of the times it was disruptive. Now it’s not. I could point you to lots of sites that justify that homosexuality should not be considered a mortal sin any more, just as you can probably point me to as many sites that say it should. At the end of the day we need to make our own minds up. I choose not to believe that God would condemn people for living in a supporting, loving relationship. And if He does, then he’s not a God I choose to believe in.


#2610

I don’t think gay people are anymore bound for hell than anyone else. I think what people think of as adultery in modern times is hugely destructive, and maybe a light stoning is appropriate. There are quite a few men raising children that aren’t theirs, and women sharing their husband without their knowledge.

Homosexuality is just sexuality, I left a church because they were leaving the parent church because they weren’t strict enough on homosexuality. It’s not my cup of tea, and it’s sometimes icky to me, but so are hickies, and liver and onions.


#2611

I had to parse that a couple times.

Parent church: Not too strict on homosexuality
Local branch: Wants to be stricter
Woodman: Leaves local branch because he’s more aligned with the parent church than the local branch

Did I get that right?


#2612

I had a small fender bender a while ago that knocked my front bumper more out of whack than what it was before. The valance (part under the bumper), I was expecting to replace anyways so I just bought the fender mounts, fender and a new valance. I managed to get everything off and back on yesterday within 8 hours. Not too bad. The bad news is the front of the frame is bent so my bumper is not completely flush anymore but it looks a hell of a lot better than before. Especially with the new valance. Now I just need to order the new headlights and hope he holds together till this winter.


#2613

Yes, that’s right. Church of God started allowing homosexuals more part in the church and the pastor called a vote to leave the larger church and go independent.

I didn’t like the tone of the sermons about it, I didn’t like the attitude about it, and I was uncomfortable with the whole thing. I put down my family veto on it.

My church doesn’t condone homosexuality, but it also doesn’t condone pre marital sex, it does realize that people are people and Jesus is the one who saves us all. It’s not my place to decide who is sinning and who isn’t and how they are.


#2614

My mother had a bit to drink Saturday and decided to move a 30lb concrete bird bath. She fell and broke her hip. No phone on her, so she laid there and yelled for help for at least half an hour. Thankfully the weather was nice at the moment and someone was jogging by eventually. (Otherwise I might be planning a funeral, or telling the story of my mom dragging herself to the neighbor’s house)

Anyway, she calls me a couple hours later from the ER, everything is cool she’s checked in and is waiting for a doctor, I tell her to keep me updated and I’ll run down if she needs me, otherwise I’ll see her in the morning at her permanent room. Ten minutes later I get a call, she’s hysterical, the doctor walked in her ER room and grabber her leg and pulled, asking her how her cough was. He had the wrong room. I ran down immediately after that call. Anyway, after some more keystone cops routines, her hip not being an actual “emergency” but only urgent we got installed in her room at like midnight with a broken hip.

Next day, after getting home at 2:30 AM, we head back up at like 9. Usual hospital no one knows what anyone is doing. The on call ortho surgeon was a shoulder arm guy, and since my mother is young for a broken hip he was pushing for a full hip replacement and not a partial (Hemi), and he wasn’t comfortable doing a full. He worked up a deal with the hip guy to come in that afternoon and he’d assist. So three rolls around, and she’s in awful pain the whole day and on morphine.

She goes into surgery, and after the surgeon tells us it’s all awesome and finished we go down the room to wait. Two hours later I go around looking for her and asking the nurses where she is. And they are all like, what, she should be down by now. Then someone finds out she’ll be down in 15 minutes. Half an hour later she comes down still doped up, and I was expecting her to be awake. Turns out after we left the surgeon went back in to check her post op xray and they had dislocated her hip moving her from bed to bed.

Then Monday we added afib and a high heart rate. Today she walked for the first time, and tomorrow she’s likely getting a cardiac reversion done.

I’m exhausted, hanging out at the hospital is draining. I’ve been coming home at night, and spending the whole day there. My wife is an angel, and my friends are all saints.


#2615

That sounds like one horrible nightmare. I hope everything goes better from now on!


#2616

I managed to get out of my first Boy Scout committee meeting without volunteering (or being voluntold) for anything.

I told myself that when I was done w/ the Cub Scout committee position, I was taking at least 6 months off. It took a lot of effort to keep my trap shut. Luckily a more established committee member piped up near the end and said “$dakboy is taking a breather, he needs a break” before I could.

I mean, I’ll still help out here and there, but I’m not taking an official position for a while.


#2617

I just completed my registration for the Muskoka Novel Marathon. Hopefully, this year will be more productive than the last two (although last year wasn’t terrible). Now I just have to decide if I’m going to start something new or work on one of my many WIPs…


#2618

Eish! Sounds horrible!

Strongs! May your mother recover fully!


#2619

We just got through a pretty bad ice storm. Yeah, welcome to spring in Canada.

I was on the bus home yesterday and it was diverted because they were repairing a downed power line. An older lady with a cane started to lose her mind. We had to go about 6 blocks perpendicular, then another 10 blocks or so in the right direction, then come back the original 6 blocks to get back on course. It’s the only way. It turns out that the repairs were being done right in front of her apartment building and no matter where the driver let her out would be a long hike for her.

Where the bus was going, it would put me about half a block from my house. I convinced her to get off with me so I could get my car and drive her home. It took 30 minutes out of my day and saved someone a huge pile of grief.

The bus driver was trying to ignore her because he was frustrated with the traffic.


#2620

Holy crap, @Woodman. I hope your mom is OK after all that.


#2621

Yeah, we were stuck in the house all weekend, and I ended up working from home on Monday (thank goodness I have that option). Because Mr. TM was off yesterday, the second car didn’t get cleared of ice, so I spent 15 minutes this morning trying to chip it all off. Yup, welcome to spring in Canada. Snow flurries expected this evening.


#2622

Next week is my last week consulting for my old company.

I can see now why they’re going out of business. The decision-making process is fundamentally broken and they’re focused on all the wrong things.

I’ve tried and tried to help them see the error of these ways, but they won’t. The thing that makes me happy is that I’ve gotten over that hill and come to make peace with the fact that this is no longer a circus I have to help manage and these are not my monkeys. I’ll treasure the friendships and working relationships that I’ve come to have and that’s the sunshine that I’ll take with me.


#2623

Good on ya, and I hope you land in a better place.

Also, somebody’s got to say it – don’t forget to wave your hat.


#2624

Were going to inpatient rehab today. She’s back into afib. And her dad is in the ER with heart failure.

I’m exhausted, I have no idea how my wife did this for two weeks with me. Otoh, I wasn’t forgetting instructions and arguing with me about whether or not she won a prize for being the best patient last night.

There appears to have been some serious consequences to a two glass of wine baseline for the last several years. She has been seeing bugs on the walls and mumbling about spitting acid to fix her leg.


#2625

Sending good vibes your way